What was once broken can be healed with love. Nothing is ever as hopeless as it seems.
In nature, trees that grow up in a windy environment become stronger. As winds whip around a young sapling, forces inside the tree do two things. First, they stimulate the roots to grow faster and spread further. Second, the forces in the tree start creating cell structures that actually make the trunk and branches thicker and more flexible to the pressure of the wind. These stronger roots and branches protect the tree from winds that are sure to return. We are infinitely more divine than we know.
As we hold on, and branch out to unite with those near us, we can withstand any force against us.